Preaching To Myself: One of the worse thing we do as humans is to attribute malice toward us in the actions of other people even though they're probably not even thinking about us or the impact of their actions on us. What I'm saying is that we need to give each other a break or at least the benefit of a doubt.
Forgive their mistakes because we certainly need forgiveness for ours. Think how much better this world, our lives, and our relationships would be if we could forgive others easily and freely and they could do the same for us. It would be a new world.